Tips for Talking with Living Siblings about Loss, Death and Grief:

  • Identify the developmental stage the child is in (to best meet their needs and understand what range of understanding they are capable of regarding death and grief)

  • Let them ask questions, reply to them with simple responses that directly answer their question (less is more)

  • Show children your responses to big feelings (when they see trusted adults not being afraid of their own big feelings, it makes them less scary for the child)

  • If you feel uncomfortable with, are too overwhelmed with your own emotions to formulate a game plan to talk to living siblings, read them a book (see our list below)

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